Lately I’ve been watching so much crap on tv. Infomercials which claim to tone you down, objects which make you slimmer by sending you electric pulses. Rocks which emit ’Psychic auraus’ and improve your overall life. And secret formula shakes to make us all slimmer but theres one problem, Everyone is so busy searching for what it is that will improve their lives and make them feel happier but what it is they are really doing is pushing what will make them happier or more successful away further and further away. Think about it, those external things might make you happy tempiraroly but it has its limitations, it never lasts and there always something new to come along and take its place – The cycle always continues!
Has anyone ever stoped to think that maybe the ‘important concept’ which we are missing is totaly within our reach? it’s so simple that we’ve missed and over looked it’s true value, did you also know it doesnt cost a penny? If your a non-beliver then by all means keep on buying useless products and attending ‘life-changing’ seminars in hopes that our lives will improve but the real truth is that it is just a dillusion which keeps us coming back and back, marketed to generate more profit.
There is something better out there.
And here it is, the important concept here is that the world starts with yourself. The way the world reacts to you and is percieved by the actions and values you bring is by what you bring to it. If your a grochy person, then chances are people will act without giving you a second thought. They will think “Hey well this guy is no value to me, so why should I treat him like he means anything” but if you walk around with a smile on your face it sub-communicates a meaning of things.
Firstly, that you are a happy person, people can always enjoy your vibe and will be willing to be more around you if it means they will enjoy themselves. They will see that you are confident, you are someone who is capable pushing forth even when the world goes mad.
Do yourself a little test. Next time you go to the mall, take a look at the people who are around you, are they all smiling are they walking like they mean something to the world and do they have a confident & capable posture?
Chances are they don’t and when someone like yourself can smile, then your the one person that can stick out in the herdes of sheep.
It’s time to stop feeling unhappy and just smile. Do you know that the men who have their single ear peirced are actually more successfull with marrage when it comes to woman? no? well it because they’ve been through pain and they’ve also bought jewlery =) Haha okay that was a joke and (and hopefully you got it)
What I want you to do right now is smile. Sit back in that chair of yours and think back to a momment where you were a little kid and everything was happy and blissfull and just smile, a BIG BIG SMILE and hold it there. Imagine you woke up this morning and you got to pick from one of your 7 porches of the week on your way to work where the woman and men threw their feet at you and praised you.
It means that only YOU can DESIDE to FEEL as GOOD as you like. No mater what. You are in charge. Not this guy on the street that called you an asshole. You. You decide if you was insulted (and feel bad) or honored (and feel great about it).
- To Be continued (very soon)
